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October 5, 2024  

The Transcending Number Seven

The use and meaningfulness of the number seven, and the seven point star known as a heptagram (also called a septagram), throughout science, religions, mythology, superstitions, and philosophies has transcended geography, culture, language and time.

Here is what search results will tell you at a top level based on either the number seven or the heptagram.  I took lots of searches with scattered results so the following is not in any particular order or priority.

  • The heptagram was used in Christianity to symbolize the seven days of creation and became a traditional symbol for warding off evil…..see police badges like the CHP.
    • There are also the seven deadly sins, the seven layers of purgatory, and the seven sacraments in the Catholic church.
    • The heptagram is a symbol of perfection (or God) in many Christian religions.
  • Genesis 1:1 was composed of seven Hebrew words containing a total of 28 letters. Throughout the Bible the number seven appears repeatedly as a symbol of divine perfection – the 7 days of creation
  • In Christian tradition, the seven heavenly virtues combine the four cardinal virtues of prudence, justice, temperance, and fortitude with the three theological virtues of faith, hope, and charity.
  • Psalm 7, the seventh psalm in the Book of Psalms, is traditionally attributed to King David, and is a regular part of many Christian and Jewish liturgies. The psalm’s message is that the righteous will ultimately prevail against the wicked, even though they may seem weak
  • The 7seals in the Book of Revelation are a series of events that will occur on Earth from the time of Christ until his second coming. Each seal represents a specific time period and event.
    • First seal: Suggests military force and government action
    • Second seal: A fiery red horse ridden by someone who takes peace from Earth, causing people to kill each other
    • Third seal: A black horse ridden by someone who causes famines and food shortages
    • Fourth seal: A pale horse ridden by Death, who is given power to kill with sword, famine, pestilence, and wild beasts
    • Fifth seal: Souls crying out from under the altar
    • Sixth seal: Events connected with the second coming of Christ
    • Seventh seal: Silence in heaven, and the distribution of trumpets to seven angels
  • In both Islam and Judaism, there are seven heavens.
    • In Islam, the seven heavens, or samāwāt (سماوات), are regions above Earth that are guarded by angels and inhabited by souls
    • In the Talmud (Hebrew Bible), it is suggested that the upper part of the universe is made up of seven heavens (Hebrew: shamayim):[15]
      • Vilon (וילון), see (Isa 40:22)
      • Raki’a (רקיע), see (Gen 1:17)
      • Shehaqim (שחקים), see (Ps 78:23, Midr. Teh. to Ps. xix. 7)
      • Zebul (זבול), see (Isa 63:15, 1 Kings 8:13)
      • Ma’on (מעון), see (Deut 26:15, Ps 42:9)
      • Machon (מכון), see (1 Kings 8:39, Deut 28:12)
      • Araboth (ערבות), The seventh Heaven where ophanim, the seraphim, and the hayyoth and the Throne of God are located.[16]
  • The number seven is Judaism’s most sacred number and signifies fullness or completeness
  • The Seal of the Seven Archangels is a powerful symbol and talisman used in esoteric and spiritual traditions to invoke the protection, guidance, and blessings of the seven archangels, who are believed to be divine intermediaries. Often incorporating a seven-pointed star (heptagram) or hexagram with the names of these powerful spiritual beings, the seal is used to ward off negative energies, promote happiness, and provide spiritual protection in various traditions, including Christianity, Judaism, Islam, and New Age spirituality.
    • The “Seal of the Seven Archangels” doesn’t have a single, clear origin, but rather developed from various religious and mystical traditions, including the Book of Enoch (which listed several archangels), Babylonian mythology, and astrological beliefs associating angels with the seven classical planets. This symbol, often a seven-pointed star (heptagram), became a widely recognized talisman in ceremonial magic and esoteric traditions for protection and to invoke spiritual guidance.
    • The Seven Archangels associated with the virtues, although not explicitly named in the Bible, are widely recognized in tradition, with variations in specific names and virtues, but generally include Michael (Justice), Gabriel (Faith), Raphael (Temperance), Uriel (Wisdom), Jophiel (Hope), Chamuel/Camael (Love/Fortitude), and Zadkiel (Righteousness/Loyalty). These virtues are often presented as divine responses to the Seven Deadly Sins, aiming to guide humanity toward goodness.
      • The seven deadly sins according to the Catholic Church are pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth.
  • Allah created seven heavens, seven earths and seven days, and man’s creation is completed in seven stages
  • In Islam, the heptagram is used to represent the first seven verses in the Quran
    • The first seven verses of the Quran are from the first chapter, Surah Al-Fatihah, which is also known as the “Opening” or “Fatiha”:
      • Verse 1: “In the name of God (Allah), the Compassionate and Merciful”
      • Verse 2: “Praise be to God, Lord of the worlds”
      • Verse 3: “the Compassionate and Merciful”
      • Verse 4: “Master of the Day of Judgement”
      • Verse 5: “Thee we worship and from Thee we seek help”
      • Verse 6: “Guide us upon the straight path”
      • Verse 7: “the path of those whom Thou hast blessed, not of those who incur wrath, nor of those who are astray”
  • The heptagram is known among neopagans as the Elven Star or Fairy Star. It is treated as a sacred symbol in various modern pagan and witchcraft traditions.
  • In alchemy, a seven-sided star can refer to the seven planets which were known to ancient alchemists.
  • George Gurdjieff, an eighteenth century philosopher and mystic, speaks very explicitly about seven days, seven colors, seven tones, seven vibrations, seven branches of knowledge. 
  • The Law of Seven is an ancient spiritual law that states that everything in the universe vibrates at its own unique frequency
  • In astrology, the number 7 is associated with the planet Neptune, which is linked to dreams, feelings, and things that are difficult to see
  • In numerology, the number 7 is often associated with knowledge, mystery, and intuition
  • People who are associated with the number 7 are thought to be wise, insightful, and intellectual, and may also be introspective and truthful. They may also be focused, confident, and assertive, and may value fairness and truth.
  • The Pythagoreans invested particular numbers with unique spiritual properties. The number seven was considered to be particularly interesting because it consisted of the union of the physical (number 4) with the spiritual (number 3). In Pythagorean numerology the number 7 means spirituality.
  • After Birth, the 7th hour decides whether the child will live, in 7 days the cord falls off, in twice 7 days the eyes follow a light, thrice 7 days turns the head, 7 months gets teeth, twice 7 months sits firmly, thrice 7 months begins to talk, after 4 times 7 months walks strongly.
    • After 7 years, teeth of a second set appear.
    • After 14 years is the arrival of generative power.
    • After 21 years, the hair of Manhood is completed.
    • After 28 we cease to grow, at 35 is greatest strength, 
    • At 49 is the greatest discretion, and 70 is the natural end of Life.
  • The body has seven obvious parts, the head, chest, abdomen, two legs and two arms.
  • There are seven internal organs, stomach, liver, heart, lungs, spleen and two kidneys.
  • 7 seas
  • 7 continents
  • 7 wonders of the world
  • 7 colors of the rainbow
  • 7 musical octaves
  • 7even days in a week
  • 7 chakras
    • Root (Muladhara): Located at the base of the spine, this chakra is said to provide stability, grounding, and a sense of security 
    • Sacral (Svadhishthana): This chakra is said to enhance creativity, passion, and emotional well-being 
    • Solar Plexus (Manipura): This chakra is said to boost confidence, personal power, and self-esteem 
    • Heart (Anahata): Located in the middle of the chest, this chakra is said to promote love, compassion, and emotional healing 
    • Throat (Vishuddha): This is one of the higher three chakras 
    • Third Eye (Ajna): This is one of the higher three chakras 
    • Crown (Sahasrara): This chakra is said to represent our connection to the divine and universal consciousness
  • In many mythologies, the number seven appears, including:
    • The seven lives of cats in Iran and other cultures 
    • The seven gateways Inanna traversed in the underworld 
    • The seven sister goddesses in Baltic mythology 
    • The seven prominent monsters in Guaraní mythology 
    • The seven steps taken by the Buddha after his birth
  • The number seven appears in many folk tales, including:
    • The seven years Thomas the Rhymer spent in the faerie kingdom 
    • The idea that breaking a mirror leads to seven years of bad luck
  • 7 Sisters
    • Seven is the number of stars in the Pleiades, known as the Seven Sisters, each of which represents for the Hopi one of the universes designated for the people and defines the length of the seven songs of Creation, and all together “the way of man on his Road of Life through seven consecutive worlds
  • Seven Senses: smell, taste, sight, touch, hearing and 6th, Mental perception, with 7th, spiritual understanding
  • The neutral pH balance is seven.
  • Number of spots most commonly found on ladybugs is seven.
  • 7 stages of life with associated planets; thus:
    • Infancy – Moon, Luna;
    • Childhood – Mercury, Knowledge;
    • Youth – Venus, Love;
    • Maturity – Mars;
    • Manhood – Sol (Sun), Full Strength;
    • Judgment – Jupiter;
    • Old Age – Saturn.
  • When we pass white light through a prism it splits into 7 distinct colors. Thus white light or visible light contains within it 7 colors. This phenomenon also explains why rainbows display seven colors.
  • In Hinduism, the Sun God, Surya, travels across the sky in a chariot pulled by seven horses. These seven horses symbolize the seven colors. Therefore, the seven-pointed star also represents the Sun and the infinite solar energy that is responsible for all life on Earth.
  • The seven Pheras, also known as the Saptapadi, is a significant Hindu wedding ritual where the bride and groom walk around a sacred fire seven times, reciting vows at each step.  During a Hindu wedding ceremony, the bride and groom walk around a holy fire seven times, symbolizing their union and commitment across seven lifetimes
  • Buddhism also teaches the seven factors of enlightenment, or satta sambojjhaṅgā, which are:
    • Mindfulness (sati)
    • Investigation of the dhamma (dhammavicaya)
    • Energy (viriya)
    • Happiness (piti)
    • Calm (passaddhi)
    • Concentration (samadhi)
    • Equanimity (upekkha)
  • Also in Buddhism, seven represents the cycle of life and death, and appears in many aspects of Buddhist mythology and belief:
    • The Buddha’s birth: After being born, the Buddha took seven steps and declared himself the World-Honored One.
    • Maya’s death: Maya died seven days after the Buddha’s birth.
    • The soul’s crossing over: In folk Buddhist belief, the soul crosses over after seven or 49 days.
    • The seven lives of the stream enterer: The seven lives of the stream enterer represent crossing over the cycle of life and death.
    • The lunar cycles: The number seven relates to the lunar cycles, which represent a sense of a cycle, return, death, and rebirth.
    • The number of visible planets: The number seven relates to the number of visible planets, which also represent a sense of a cycle, return, death, and rebirth
  • In Confucianism, 7 represents harmony between yin, yang, earth, fire, water, wood, and metal. 7 days of the week, 7 colors of the rainbow
  • Japanese Buddhists celebrate a baby’s seventh day and mourn the seventh day after a person dies when the soul is said to cross over.
  • The number seven is the smallest number that’s a happy number, meaning it eventually ends in a sequence of ones when you repeatedly square its digits and add the answers.
  • Big dipper has seven main stars
    • To the Hindu, the Big Dipper is represented by the seven wise men or sages
    • Before the Civil War, the Big Dipper was a guide to freedom for slaves traveling on the Underground Railroad. The Big Dipper points to the North Star. Runaway slaves who found the Big Dipper used it to lead them North to freedom.
    • In Arabian lore, the Big Dipper is associated with funerals. The bowl represents a coffin and the three stars in the handle are mourners following behind 
  • In Polynesia, the seven-pointed star is used often in imagery, basket making, tattoos, and is considered to be a symbol of Kanaloa, the first Polynesian navigator
  • In geometry, The number 7 represents purity, wisdom, unconditional love, and Spirit. It is also associated with the rhythm of life, i.e. it embodies the idea of a complete cycle of manifestation due to its qualities of perfect unity (3 – trinity) and materiality (4 – quaternary). It expresses the idea of the rule of spirit over form and symbolizes the connection between the macrocosm and the microcosm.
  • In Egyptian mythology, the number seven symbolizes perfection, effectiveness, and completeness
  • Also in Egyptian mythology, The first rite of passage for Egyptian babies was a ceremony called the Sebou, which was held on the seventh day of the baby’s life and the Seven Hathors were a group of goddesses associated with fate and fortune telling. They were worshipped in seven cities, and their priests could read the fortunes of newborns and explain people’s dreams.
    • The Seven Hathors of the Celestial Herd (aka The Pleiades).
    • The Seven Hathors were a group of sacred forms of the Egyptian goddess Hathor that determined an infant’s fate at birth. They were sometimes depicted as seven cows, accompanied by the Bull of the West, a minor sky and afterlife deity. The names of the Seven Hathors were:
      • “Lady of the Universe”
      • “Sky-storm”
      • “The hidden one, presiding over her place”
      • “You, from Khemmis”
      • “Red-hair”
      • “Bright Red”
      • “Your Name prevails over the West”
  • In Chinese culture, this is recognized as Liù Jio Xng, and it signifies good fortune and fortunate energy.
  • In Native American customs, this is linked to the balance of the realms and the seven directions.
  • In Hermeticism, it symbolizes the coexistence of the heavenly and physical worlds.
  • Seven churches in Book of Revelations
    • Some historicists typically interpret the seven churches as representing seven different periods in the history of the Western Church from the time of Paul until the return of Jesus Christ. 
  • In Revelation 1:20, the Son of Man is seen walking among seven lampstands and holding seven stars in his right hand. The seven stars represent the angels of the seven churches, and the seven lampstands represent the seven churches.
  • In Revelation 16, the seventh angel announces that the time of the Second Coming has come.
  • In alchemy, the seven-pointed star represents the seven planets known to early alchemists and the seven alchemical substances: fire, water, air, earth, sulfur, salt, and mercury
  • The seven-pointed star is a significant symbol in Cherokee culture. It represents the seven clans of the Cherokee people: Bird, Long Hair, Paint, Deer, Wolf, Blue, and Wild Potato. The star also represents the seven characters of Sequoyah’s syllabary, which means “Cherokee Nation”.
  • The number seven is also significant in:
    • Mesopotamian culture 
    • The cult of Mithra 
    • The Indian Vedas 
    • Chinese culture, where it’s considered a good number for relationships 
    • Hinduism, where it symbolizes cycles and completion

Additional links and documentation can be found here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/7 and you will go down several rabbit holes googling the use of the number seven and reading the AI generated answers.

What I found most interesting is that there is no use of the number seven in Animism. Animism is a way of viewing the world where all things, including animals, plants, rocks, and rivers, have a spiritual essence. Animism is not a set religion, but rather a way of engaging with the world. Simply put, animism is a worldview which states that all beings, humans, animals, plants, lands, and waters, live within an interconnected web of spirituality. Animism applies personhood and agency to non-human beings.

Also, there is no number seven in Aboriginal Spirituality. Aboriginal Spirituality is different than Animism. Aboriginals believe that many animals and plants are interchangeable with human life through re-incarnation of the spirit or soul. The Golden Rule in Aboriginal Spirituality states that “we are as much alive as we keep the earth alive.” By treating the earth with the same respect we expect for ourselves, we may foster our connection with the environment and be more motivated to ensure its’ survival. Aboriginals believe that the entire world was made by their Ancestors way back in the very beginning of time, the Dreamtime. The Ancestors made everything. The Ancestors made particular sites to show the Indigenous people which places were to be sacred. Only the number four is meaningful to Aboriginal belief. The Dreamtime has four parts: The beginning of everything; the life and power of the ancestors; the way of life and death; and power in life. Dreamtime was all four of these things at the same time because it is more powerful than time and space.

Oh, and my wife was the seventh child.

There is a lot more to explore about aboriginal spirituality but that is for another post.

October 4, 2024  

Making Character Greater Again

What is Your Character?

Character is defined as the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual.  It is who you are and it determines how you relate to others.  It is your personal development, it impacts your relationships and can help determine the outcome of your goals.  It can influence the decisions you make, the way you learn, the way you manage, and how others perceive you. 

Your character is what people see in front of them, how you act, and who they are listening to when you speak. Your character is NOT something defined by personality trait assessments, colorful strengthsfinder graphics, or word association surveys that tell you how you are supposedly wired for limits.

How Does Your Character Form?

Although the experts tell us our formative years in childhood are defined as 0-8 years of age, I’d argue a theory that your characters’ formative years starts at age 10-12 as you meet memorable and influential people.  It continues to evolve with 50% of your distinctiveness forming at 12-18 years of age, an additional 25% coming through age 24 and the last 25% should be fluid throughout the rest of your journey.

What Are COI’s?

These memorable and influential people are considered your “Centers of Influence” or COI’s. This concept was originally given to us by Ellen White and is used in a broader definition to include individuals in your own circles or concentric circles of friends and colleagues. COI’s can be life long influences throughout your journey, be a short part of the journey that fills a purpose in the moment, or supersedes a previous person in a particular seat on your current bus.

COI’s could be bosses, coaches, co-workers, older kids you knew, teachers, or family members.  You remember them for something they said, something they did, something they wrote, someway they behaved, something they were good at, someone you experienced something epic with, or an action they took. Maybe they were the only ones to be honest and truthful with you or helped you at your worst. They could be a character in a movie that represents what you want to be and they can be historical or religious figures, artists, or even philosophers. I can argue the COI’s can also be experiences or memories from events.

Who Are Your COI’s?

Let’s test this theory of character evolution. Make a quick list of the people, events, or idols that positively impacted you and who you still think of today in your thoughts, words, and deeds from before you were 24 years old.  

Now who or what have you met, idolized, or experienced in the last 10 years that could be an upgrade from the original seat holders?  I had 30 on my quick list and as I looked at my current contacts I only swapped out 10. I won’t say who or what but the memorable individuals and things that I was surrounded with in my younger years set the bar pretty high and if you have had the same, you realize that having the right people around or experiences has been a benefit to who you are. I have also found the as we have grown as a family, the events and activities that

Is Character Permanent?

Now what happens to your character as you get older and set in your ways? The quote “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with” is often attributed to motivational speaker Jim Rohn.  If true, then I’ll ask if those five individuals are lifting you up, keeping you at a mediocre level, or dragging you down from your greater potential? What would your mom, dad, wife, husband or any significant other that unconditionally loves you say?

This quote was the basis for our “Turd Test” when our son was growing up. “What are you going to smell like if all the kids you hang around with are turds? Pretty self explanatory and combined with the Golden Rule and The Mom Test, I think we gave the kid a pretty decent decision support system for his early formative years. Sure you can argue who defines “turdness” and sets the floor of qualifications, but as a society I think conventional wisdom gets us 95% there.

Why five? You can read about the law of 3 and law of 7 but why stop there as well. Why not 10? Why not 20? 50? The point I am driving towards is why limit yourself to the amount of people that can raise your average and then what are you doing to surround yourself with even more? One of the rules I follow and preach is to always be learning, meeting new people, and helping others and great things will develop. It does not matter which order, it matters that you take action and keep taking action on the three activities. 

Should COI’s Be Permanent?

Covey’s 7th habit is to sharpen the saw and one way is to keep surrounding yourself with great people that can challenge you and grow you further. Joe Sweeny’s success model proved networking is a contact sport and emphasizes the need to know the right people to get things done by being a connector.  William Morris (actually created wallpaper) said to keep nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful which supports the necessity to keep turds out of your life.

ABC is a well known selling call for action to “Always Be Closing”.  I am suggesting and challenging you to repurpose ABC to “Always Be Churning” meaning always be meeting new people, remembering the parts that influence you, and then keep meeting additional people. Whether you are in sales or not, in leadership or not, or just on a quest to be the best human you can be.  There is strength in numbers and I believe the room is always smarter than the individual so make sure your room is full of quality and experienced people that can lift you up.

Meeting and surrounding yourself with the right people can be a force multiplier to your character and also help you achieve bigger and better goals as you leverage what you learn and include others in working with you towards shared visions and goals.

If your COI’s keep improving, your character has no choice but to follow.

Whose Character Are You Making Greater?

You should flip this process as well and look at where you are in the whole concentric COI circles you play in.  Whose 5,10, or 20 are you grouped in with? Who is looking at you for advice and experience?  It may say a lot about how people see you and give you some insights and ideas about changing your beliefs, values, actions and character. Even Scrooge and the Grinch evolved and I would remind you of the turd test for who you are surrounded by at the next networking event or roundtable that you are asked to join.

Now an additional challenge to parents: Who are you surrounding your kids with to build their character? In addition, who are you surrounded with at their events and activities that can support that?

Stay turd free my friends!!!!!

September 24, 2024  

Why Hire #Neurodiveristy in #Manufacturing? Because You Can’t Fail.

We are all battling a lack of people applying for open positions in our companies and combine that with the fact there is a strata of the workforce that is working harder to stay home and get out of work than to add value to the world.

What if you can find productive employees and guarantee your next hire would:

  • Always be on time.
  • Want to learn more daily.
  • Care about the work they do.
  • Create efficiencies that you did not consider.
  • Set an example for others.

Where would you spend your time? Now, what if I told you there are 170,000+ of these capable employees available to start tomorrow just in Wisconsin alone?

What if you learned that there are no state programs to qualify for, apply to, or wait for a response in 90 days. There is no three page job description to write and that other Manufacturers in the private sector already have success that you can use as a model? All you have to do is give a shit to make this work.

Need a business case for the doubters? What if you learned that 11.9% of the population is considered to have a disability, and hence be neurodiverse, but only 19.1% of them are employed?  How about the fact that employers that hire people with disabilities have on average 28% higher revenue, double the net income, and 30% higher profit margins than their peer group?  Another fun fact published by the government, is that GDP in the USA could be boosted up to $25 billion dollars if just 1% additional people with disabilities joined the labor force.

My daughter Emma Rathmann and I were honored to give the opening presentation at the Disability:IN Wisconsin event on Hiring Neurodiverse Talent to Grow Manufacturing last week hosted by Engauge Workforce Solutions. Over 100 talent seekers and employers attended for the purpose of learning more about hiring the most under considered and capable workforce this region, state, and world has to offer.

Also presenting at the event  were Goldhmong Vang,Katie Malnight Meisinger Corryn Manderfield, and the Down Syndrome Association of Wisconsin. The audience was filled with , , leaders, other Service Providers, and even parents of sons and daughters looking for companies that “get it” and can help provide a caring environment and future for their kids.

The following is a recap from our presentation about the commonalities of all the success stories just from our close circle of neurodiverse friends that are gainfully employed and adding value to the efforts in the private sector. Some people thought this presentation was about the formula we created for success.  In reality, this is a documentary of what we see working with the individuals we know besides our own experiences.

Let’s first talk about the shared characteristics of your future employees:

  • They have defined schedules and availability;
  • They have favorite interests, foods, and communication styles;
  • They have a linear and VERY literal thought process;
  • They see the world as flat when it comes to organizational charts and hierarchy, which translates to treating the groundskeeper on the same level as the CEO (BTW, This should be your leadership style if it isn’t already).

Tell me how any of this is unmanageable?

Let’s talk secondly about the shared characteristics of the accommodations that other companies are making for these employees:

  • They offer flexible and part time schedules;
  • They have a horizontal structure on mission and surround the employee with others that are available to help mentor and answer questions that arise;
  • They help the employee understand what their role is and why there are certain requirements for clothing and safety equipment;
  • They offer stacked training and build a playbook and handbook specifically for the role the employee is in, as well as have them job shadow until they are comfortable performing on their own;
  • They give clear directions and instructions with tangible metrics for the employee to gamify their duties and measure their own progress.

Tell me how any of this is impossible for you to offer?

No replication of your favorite recipe is successful without the right ingredients so you need to understand all of the shared characteristics and parts of the employment model that the current success stories share.

  • The employee does have the desire to work, the capability to do the work, a consistent and predictable schedule, and the ability to advocate for themselves;
  • The opportunity for the employee is aligned on their skill sets, are supported by other employees with interactions from multiple levels within the company;
  • The employees’ family was involved and is in communication with the stakeholders within the company and has provided insights for the management, helps with pregame and postgame daily routine before and after work, and the family has learned to trust that the company is looking out for the employee on all levels.This will be the hardest part for the employer to prove themselves as a safe and growth environment for their child;
  • The position is supported through a staffing agency, has access to additional training and education resources through non-profits, and has transportation needs filled by the family or a service.

Just as the right ingredients are necessary, so is how those ingredients work together on a daily, weekly and monthly basis.  I call it “The Committed Ecosystem” as pictured in the opening of this article.  No matter how large the organization is, if you find someone that can be on time, cares about the work they do, and wants to learn, you are going to make room for them.

  • There absolutely needs to be selfless vision and leadership in the organization to want to hire neurodiverse employees.  A company should be a people system first and that will drive the business systems.
  • The middle management needs to be informed, educated, and empowered to work with and help grow their team members.  This is the biggest point of failure for many organizations that say they are diverse and inclusive on their mission statements but then do not provide the middle management the tools they need which leaves the employee in a sink or swim situation that frustrates all parties involved and is ultimately a failure.
  • The supportive team members are the most important ingredient. You need to surround the employee with the right people that are willing to teach others, can be selfless themselves, and measure their own success through the growth of others.  Pay these people well!

An interesting tangent to this, while presenting this material to a group of parents the previous week, a fellow Dad asked what I would do as the CEO when their child comes home and says that someone called them a certain derogatory name and bullied their child’s situation.  My answer as a Dad was that we have been in that situation and what I wanted to do was considered a hate crime in most developed nations.  My answer a week later as a CEO that employs now four neurodiverse individuals, is that if I have not built an organization of people aligned on a common goal that want to see each other do well as much as be experts in their own space, I have failed and don’t deserve to employ their son or daughter.

  • The Family and the 4th Party Resources (like transportation, the staffing company, the trainers and outside partners) are very much aligned and in communication about the employee.  This is essentially the “it takes a village” aspect of your journey and everyone having access to each other to address any schedule changes, additional training opportunities, and questions that may develop by anyone in this journey to grow the opportunity for the individual is key.  One of the presenters at the seminar actually stated that it “takes a city sometimes”.  I don’t disagree and each situation is going to be unique.

The capstone to this article is how to build your playbook for success in hiring a neurodiverse employee.  I wish I had a patented process that I could guarantee would work for you with a money back guarantee, but the real chance for success is for you to just get started using the following process parts and make adjustments as needed.

  • First, replicate success.  There are other companies out there that are doing this successfully and their partners in success are just waiting to help others. Use your network, cross pollinate best practices and make introductions.  I guarantee if you are reading this, you know someone that is neurodiverse and have the people in your network that can help. There is a Chinese Proverb that states the best time to plant an oak tree was 30 years ago, the next best time is now.
  • Second, if you are going to be the one driving the mission, then build your village (or city). Find a staffing agency that can support the hiring model if you are tied to certain hiring policies and processes that are found in union based shops or complex companies.  Call the position contract based or seasonal and you have some flexibility.
  • Thirdly, when you find an individual that you want to hire, define what success looks like, who the stakeholders are and create roles. Make sure your new employee understands where their role fits into the big picture of the operations, what the goals are, and how they can measure their success.
  • Fourthly, you need to stay agile and responsive on this journey with the employee.  There will be some unknowns like hiring anyone else, there will be a few schedule changes and there will be a few situations that the employee may need help navigating.
  • Finally, be visible.  Praise efforts and achievements, check in often with your management and frontline team members, leave the door open for anyone to ask questions, be creative with analogies and examples to teach everyone involved and have patience. By the way, this entire journey may be a bottom up solution so be receptive.

You can not fail at this because any action you take to help employ the neurodiverse or support that action is more than you did yesterday and more than the market had. Just get started. You’ll figure out the second step once you do.

At the 2023 Berkshire Hathaway Shareholders Meeting, Warren Buffett said this country is missing a “Unity of Purpose” on several items in reference to how the country pulled together during WWII and for the Space Race to the Moon.  Everyone in the room last week shared a unity of purpose of integrating some of the most capable individuals in the world into their manufacturing efforts and I look forward to more success stories being posted.

Emma and I are available to anyone that would like assistance in any or all of the parts of this article. By the way, my daughter Emma was diagnosed with Aspergers at age 12 and is now employed at HUSCO International surrounded by fantastic humans in a win-win model for production and making a difference in growing her.  It has been a journey together as a Family and will continue to be and we are eternally grateful for the team there.

Accommodating Uniqueness

Four Legged Stool

Committed Organization

Build Your Plan

Disconnect between a vision and execution

Takes a village

It is important for all of us to foster an environment that is conducive to neurodiversity, and to recognize and emphasize each person’s individual strengths and talents while also providing support for their differences and needs.

How can employers make their workplaces more neurodiversity-friendly?
Offer small adjustments to an employee’s workspace to accommodate any sensory needs, such as
Sound sensitivity: Offer a quiet break space, communicate expected loud noises (like fire drills), offer noise-cancelling headphones.
Tactile: Allow modifications to the usual work uniform.
Movements: Allow the use of fidget toys, allow extra movement breaks, offer flexible seating.
Use a clear communication style:
Avoid sarcasm, euphemisms, and implied messages.
Provide concise verbal and written instructions for tasks, and break tasks down into small steps.
Inform people about workplace/social etiquette, and don’t assume someone is deliberately breaking the rules or being rude.
Try to give advance notice if plans are changing, and provide a reason for the change.
Don’t make assumptions — ask a person’s individual preferences, needs, and goals.
Be kind, be patient.

Ecosystem – Ven diagram of employee, company, family, 4th party resources = growth

Forward thinking…..

References

https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/what-is-neurodiversity-202111232645#:~:text=Neurodiversity%20describes%20the%20idea%20that,are%20not%20viewed%20as%20deficits

December 21, 2022  

T’was The Night Before The Sales Quota……

……And all through the room, not a salesperson was heard except the sales manager saying something about Glengarry on Zoom.

The mail slots were hung by HR with care with the hope that bonus checks soon would be there.

The sales team headed out with the bosses credit card, as they hoped this new economy would not be hit hard. The HR manager was out on the covid protocol, as I wondered to myself how a men’s rooms could only have one stall?

When out in the lot there sprang such a clatter, I quickly hurried to empty my bladder. Then away to the lot the team bolted like the flash, for fear of someone breaking into their EV’s and stealing their not yet legal stash.

The moon shone bright on the new blown snow and showed new tracks that around the corner did go. When what to their wondering eyes should appear, but a delivery driver with many boxes that identified as they/them and as a deer.

With this cleverly dressed driver, so creative and quick, they knew from his nametag that his name was actually Richard. More rapid than social media their criticism came, when he snapped his fingers and started calling them by name.

Now Jimmy, now Phil, now Larry and Sarah, for Lisa, for Tina, for Robert and Klara, to the front of the tavern over near the side wall, I have something in recycled envelopes for you all.

As dry leaves fly in the chilled November air, the sales team headed back to reclaim a chair. So up to the bar their empty glasses flew in order to grab some more of that sweet left over cheap Oktoberfest brew.

And then with a twinkling, the bartender said, we’re finally out of that crap as he topped off the head. As I reached out my hand and was turning around, out came new pitchers that the bartender had found.

They were filled to the brim with a local IPA and slid over to us by the bartender named Ray. With his lumberjack beard and way too tight flannel, we asked him to put the Bucks game on a different channel.

With the remote not being found, we were stuck with CNN as talks of a new jab were just coming in. They went on to say that supply chain was saved by our commander in chief but when they interviewed people shopping in New York, nobody could find any beef. Weird.

We turned off the tube and went back to the table for Richard to pass out the envelopes when he felt he was safe and able, and although he identified as they/them and a deer, he sure could pass out envelopes without fear.

He spoke not a word but went straight to his work and handed out those envelopes without being a jerk. He made us all wait to open them together and I have to admit we all wondered why is he in all leather?

On the count of three, we all read the note, it was from the CEO, a GOAT, who left early that day to take out his boat. Coffee’s for closers, steak knives for you all, I’ll see you on Monday in my new Caddy and show you how to make a call.

Merry Christmas All!

November 20, 2022  

Why You Want More Pirates In Business

First of all, being a pirate is super cool and I would argue that piracy and the pirate mindset is alive and well. Yes, we all agree that the robbing, the kidnapping, the murdering, and the causing of general mayhem are unacceptable in most civilized societies by most people, but the positive characteristics that created success in the golden ages of the 18th century are still necessary for great leaders to run their ships today.

So if you don’t find having epic combat skills, being ruthless, being able to hold your rum, and the being to navigate the open sea by the stars as being relevant to today’s efforts, maybe the following will be.

Pirates are disruptors, innovators, and opportunists.

Doing the same thing the same way with the same people for too long has a diminishing return.

Pirates are quick to adapt to changing government and economic policies

If you are still in business after ’20 and ’21, then you understand.

Pirates have a code and set of values that align on their mission

Nothing aligns efforts like shared success that leads to the betterment of all involved.

Pirates are the originators of workplace democracy and transparency

Did you know that the cover on the ship’s binnacle was not just for weather protection? It was so only the captain knew what direction the ship was heading and now successful businesses value input on direction and make metrics visible for showing progress.

Pirate captains have to earn the trust of the crew

Still do.

Pirate culture is more diverse, progressive, and equitable than most societies

If you are productive and adding value to a company, then it does not matter who you are as an individual.

Pirates thrive outside of the traditional hierarchical management processes

Nobody should be able to use the term “that’s not my job” when you are able to take action and drive a next step in achieving goals.

Pirates believe skill and commitment are more important than background

Results will always speak for themselves.

Pirates are visionary, think outside the box, and defy conventional wisdom

There are opportunities and profits to be found by turning into storms and sailing some oceans that others won’t and if you run out of fish, then you might have to hunt for other types of food using different tools and tactics.

Pirates are the originators of profit sharing

Nothing aligns a mission more than the sharing the spoils.

Pirate ships are well funded and outfit their crews to get the job done

You don’t ask a surgeon to bring his own scalpel from home. Just saying.

Pirates believe in work life balance

It’s not there there is not opportunity to work 24/7/365 and yes, there is always more to do but, there is a point where the work needs to be done for the day and the world needs to be enjoyed.

Napster, Uber, Tesla, Amazon, Virgin, Apple, and are credited with being original pirate organizations and there is no doubt that their disruption and innovation have changed the world and led to other successful companies, but funny how some of these tech companies are laying people off by the thousands as of this posting. Maybe they lost their original pirate.

October 10, 2022  

How Covidiocy Strengthened Grit

John Wayne in True Grit – 1969

This is a follow up to the post “Leading Against Existential Threats” from March of ’20. You can revisit it here and you can find the definition of “Covidiocy” here.

Chances are that if you were in a leadership role in ’20 and ’21, you struggled to make sense of the fluid situations we were handed, but if you stayed true to values and pushed through everything, you have evolved into a more resilient and grittier leader.

As I have reconnected with several people that I respect and consider impactful on my business success and evolution as a leader, I asked every one of them the same question; “How has your mindset, priorities, actions, and decision making changed in your business and personal life after the past two years?”

Many companies experienced anywhere from a 20 to 60 percent loss in revenue in 2020 and into 2021, and more than 14 million Americans either temporarily or permanently lost their jobs. Half of society was deemed unessential, people got paid more to stay home, we mastered washing our hands but those of us still on the roads forgot how to use turn signals. With a 99% survival rate, >90% of the fatalities being realized in older people with several co-morbidities, we had to make it about the children and deaths by gun shot wounds and motorcycle accidents counted towards the daily death tolls leaving us with more questions than answers from the health “experts” about real risks. Toilet paper was rationed and we couldn’t get our hair cut or go out for a beer, but weird how no grocery clerk or gas station attendant died of symptoms. We even threw out the global play book that was adopted by the experts in case things like this happened. In fact, now we have a study from the same people that produced the first study we threw out that says we should not have thrown out that previous study and never should have followed the second study. Douglas Adams could not have dreamed this scenario up.

The Covidiocy started in March of ’20 and still continues in some aspects today. All of the sudden we all felt like Robinson Crusoe being thrown into a strange and surprising adventure and it was trial by fire time. As things evolved, there was no pondering WWJD, no ghost written bibliographies from leaders during Spanish Flu or Black Plague to learn from, there were no wiki’s or even historical references for leaders to use, and no precedent for the command and control political decisions that were being handed down daily with false end dates. Opinion became scientific fact and objectivity disappeared. Biased subjective misinformation became gospel and fear was willingly used against individual liberties and free market economics.

Not everyone in my circles fully landed on both feet after two years of staying committed to their roles and responsibilities. There was a lot of burn out and a lot of good people retired early or took simpler roles where they can just take orders and no longer be the one that gives orders. I miss them and I am grateful for a few stronger people than myself that kept me going.

Business leaders spent the last two years getting kicked in the groin daily and weekly by government policies, conflicting health data, lack of consistency in supply chain delivery and responsiveness, chirping crickets when you needed questions answered from your customers that went remote, and trying to write a new play book weekly for business strategy as the world was changing the game. All this while you tried to keep your employees whole and involved with decisions, being empathetic to their family needs and life balance, and helping to translate all of the politics of the situation where objective truth was non-existent or buried. Not to mention that the people that tried to raise flags of concern and had objective data to prove it were cancelled and deemed witches. The Salem Witch Trials may have taken place in the 1690’s but I would argue the mentality and mechanisms are still being stirred in the kettle.

The answers varied and if I hear the word pivot one more time I will probably puke. If you thought perseverance, passion for achieving goals, staying positive and hence resiliency and grit were important before, I say that before March of ’20 we had it pretty easy. Angela Duckworth’s book “Grit” was published in 2016 and contains some brilliant subject matter, but now more than ever, we need to confront even more obstacles and distractions as well as deal with the lagging results described later.

So, as I was listening to my network, gathering feedback, and trying to find my own answer to the questions I was asking of others, I started researching leadership trends now that we realize we were not in a life extinction event. We are starting to see some great articles but they are sanitized because of the fear of being cancelled or being doxed by the perpetuators of what the official line is supposed to be.

I found the information out there overwhelming, conflicting, and subjective depending on the industry the authors were in, but I also found some of the information validating to how I stayed the path and that I was not alone in how my mindset, priorities, actions and decision making have changed. I know I was burnt out by Q3 of ’21 but I took a few days to organize things at home, clean out the garage, replaced some rotting boards, took a lot of long walks with my dog, and made sure my family had their paths set for a strong end to the year. When I got back to work, I found that some of the team had accelerated some of the goals we set and realized the others that were being subsidized and dragging down efforts had to go. I don’t miss them and since we made those changes, the team has never been more aligned on mission.

Through this journey, I found the acronym V.U.C.A. which stands for “volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous”.

Let’s dive deeper.

Volatile: “characterized by or subject to rapid or unexpected change, transitory”

Uncertain: “not known beyond doubts, not reliable, variable, indefinite, indeterminate”

Complex: “hard to separate, analyze or solve”

Ambiguous: “capable of being understood in two or more possible senses, obscure, indistinct”

V.U.C.A. is actually the love child of and seems to be more acceptable in the business publication world than it’s predecessors F.U.B.A.R. and S.N.A.F.U. and may be followed by B.O.H.I.C.A. in the next pandemic.

V.U.C.A. acts like a catch-all for the changing and evolving business and social environments that we had. Some of the outcomes of navigating V.U.C.A issues were great! Like the speed that restaurants adopted different technology just to serve a hot dog with to-go margaritas curb side, people that did not believe in Amazon now ordering everyday items you would pick up on the way home now delivered to your door without human contact. (this also finally meant not having to wait for that challenged individual in front of you to find their check book). Virtual meeting tools were adopted so we could stay in our pajamas waist down and save on gas. Traffic patterns for those of us that were deemed essential actually became tolerable and even though we seemed to master washing our hands, I think it would be useful to find a mass hysteria that leads to using turn signals next. I actually think some people thought masks saved them from being idiots on the road. Take my neighbor that masked up speeding through the neighborhood and ran through the stop signs while driving on the wrong side of the road. All this while wearing his mask in his car all alone with the windows up. Although this same idiot did do some of these things before but now combined the activities like a full orchestra and not just the first chair of each activity alone.

V.U.C.A also acts like a catch-all for the respective problems and ongoing repercussions to operations, business models, supply chains, inflated costs, and disruption to home life that we are still navigating through. Solutions that should have been simple had to be over thought for unnecessary contingencies and every plan you developed for the next day and week was blown up because someone you were connected to had a tickle in their throat and posted in on social media.

I found that navigating through issues caused by V.U.C.A. helps us realize that the tools and attributes we already had in place could be applied to the new normal. You realize that the V.U.C.A situations already existed and you have already been fighting them. V.U.C.A. has technically always been here, it is just wearing new clothes and could be blamed on a new enemy. Tools and attributes such as agility, responsiveness, collaboration, adaptation, continual learning and setting SMARTER goals were already in your playbook.

Let’s get back to the original question I was asking of my network and the answer about how priorities, actions, and decisions making changed in ’20 and ’21. Zig Ziglar said that sometimes adversity is what you need to face in order to become successful. I would say that navigating ’20 and ’21 has given you a good base to become even more resilient and successful and I hope this gives some guidance for the next B.O.H.I.C.A moments handed to us by the world. I believe many leaders have these qualities and I look at this list as a time to recognize what works as well as bringing forth some evolved qualities, traits, and skills that you can integrate and reprioritize.

These are not prioritized in any way.

  • Be human and be honest. It is ok to admit you don’t have all the answers and it will build trust.
  • Make decisions based on solid facts.
  • Build a support network….nobody is an island and you do not have to be alone.
  • Collaborate and use your network outside your four walls as sounding boards.
  • Take care of yourself mentally and physically, take care of your family, and remember your empathy when working with others.
  • Get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Complacency kills.
  • Embrace agility, responsiveness, creativity, and collaborative solutions development.
  • Realize that what got you here might not get you there.
  • When facing new adversities, be able to see through ambiguity and uncertainty and stay focused on opportunities.
  • Be confident in how you communicate about the opportunities you are focused on.
  • Turn head on into problems and be able to reprioritize without losing sight of the bigger picture.
  • Be realistic with SMARTER goals and discuss timelines and deadlines as well as agree on a schedule of checkpoints at which you’ll review project progress.
  • Have contingencies and be able to rapidly reprioritize and address problems quickly.
  • Do the work that is meaningful to the mission and delegate the administrative aspects.
  • You will have failures but it is more important not to quit and learn to use in game amnesia. Use mistakes and set backs as learning opportunities.
  • Give credit to the right people so that their hard work is acknowledged.
  • Never stop meeting new people, learning new things, and helping others whether it is making connections for them to people that make sense or filling a void they can’t fill themselves.
  • Keep your door open, dissent is not disloyalty, and be open to other peoples opinions.
  • Stay true and hold fast to your values and culture.
  • Emotional intelligence became mission critical and you may need to fine tune your communication style to fit the situation.

Business today needs more resilient leadership than ever before but it will also need the more necessary help of human creativity and innovation for imaginative solutions to problems that have not even surfaced yet. This new resiliency was named “VUCA-bility” in one of the articles referenced and the list above was gathered from many resources as well as my own experiences and those of the people that made it through. If this BS happens again, which it will, I hope that you are can make use of some of the points above and integrate them now so you are better prepared for later.

Unfortunately, we are just now seeing the lagging issues of our Covidiocy that were actually predicted to occur, but of course we were over reacting. Even now with all of the policy rollbacks, even with Canada being open again, there is no academic acceptance that the “experts” were foolish and wrong in their approach. And what should scare you the most is not how may rights were trampled upon, it is how fast so many people willingly gave them us.

These lagging and lingering issues include:

  • K12 test score results recently published show kids are dumber than ever.
  • Increased drug use and suicides are logarithmic in growth.
  • The “Sofa” generation was created and being short staffed is here to stay.
  • Major crime rates are surging.
  • Mental health has diminished in all age groups.
  • Respect for other peoples opinions has disappeared.
  • Consumer and producer price inflation continue to increase.
  • Traveled lately? The service mindset is gone.
  • Those that want to do the least in society are being rewarded the most.
  • Educrats thought they could raise our children better and spent more time on pronouns than the three R’s (now the two R’s according to the Simpsons here ).
  • Believing in God, Country, and Family makes you a racist or a fascist or both.
  • All objectivity continues to be missing in reporting and an the ongoing practice of deny, deflect, and distract in the press instead of shining light on hypocrisy, double standards, and holding people accountable is normal.

Time to get gritty.

A key component of grit is resilience, resilience is the powering mechanism that draws your head up, moves you forward, and helps you persevere despite whatever obstacles you face along the way. In other words, gritty people keep moving forward and we’ll wrap this up with the ever wise John Lennon who said “everything will be alright in the end, and if it is not alright, it is not the end”.

References:

VUCA: a definition – From war to the business environment by EHL Insights

What are the main traits of resilient leaders? by EHL Insights

The future of leadership: Skills to look for in business leaders post-COVID-19 by Erin Joy on March 11, 202

urbandictionary.com/covidiocy /by Deus-ex-machina August 2, 2020

5 Characteristics Of Grit-How Many Do You Have? by Margaret M. Perlis on Forbes from October 29, 2013

Learning from Robinson Crusoe – Isolation Specialist by Kent Choi on LinkedIn from April 30, 2020

3 Pandemic Lessons Leaders Should Learn Before Moving Forward by Marcel Schwantes, INC contributing Editor and Founder

March 6, 2022  

The Stoic Dad

Let’s start at 10K feet.

I was born in Chicago, grew up a latch key kid in Southern California and came to Wisconsin for college where I graduated with a Philosophy Degree and a double minor is Chemistry and Biology. I got married and sired three awesome kids with an Irish Catholic Marquette grad. I worked in distribution, hospitality, and professional services (not a Gigolo) for my first three careers. I professed part time at two colleges, started a sales consulting practice, built a Sales Jedi training academy, and now own a machine shop where I lead a great team of skilled and caring individuals. I’m a Jeffersonian that likes bourbon, the 2nd Amendment, Free Market Economics, and really meaty pizza on Saturday nights. I have some great centers of influence that keep me humble (This means you Judi M!), my pronoun is “whatever”, and I am far from having figured things out.

We have three great kids and we have tried tirelessly to give them a good foundation to grow from. Our oldest is high functioning autistic and has taught me more about management than any other experiences. Think of the relationship Picard has with Data. Our second daughter is as selfless as my wife and the world has always been too small for her; Our son is turning into a fine young man and we try to keep up with his desire to be everything he can be.

One of my main rules for parenting is not to treat your kids like kids. Sure there is the car seat phase and the cotton candy line at the zoo, but we have always been honest with them about the world and involved them in the solutions developed at the kitchen table. There are no questions off limits and we all share how we added value to the world that day and what we learned from it. This philosophy has developed over time and now at a point where we can share it with those that are interested. Sure this may provide evidence for my eventual committal to an asylum, but it might help some of you as well.

Since I fell in love with philosophy and continuously ponder the meaning of life when I’m walking the dogs late at night, I have always been a fan of stoicism. A ‘Stoic’, by definition, is a person who endures pain and suffering without letting out their emotions. Simple. It is visually equal to that cow you see in the field when it’s cold outside and it’s raining hard.

Stoicism is a branch of philosophy created for those that live in the real world. Not the people across the street from me. It’s a philosophy designed to make us more resilient, happier, more virtuous and wiser. By default then, we should be better people, better professionals, and even better parents correct? Key word here is ‘should’.

Stoicism and its core values of courage, temperance, justice, and the wisdom generated has been a common thread among some of history’s great leaders. It has been practiced by Kings, presidents, artists, writers and entrepreneurs. Names you would recognize include Marcus Aurelius, Frederick the Great, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Adam Smith, John Stuart Mill, Theodore Roosevelt, and General James “Mad Dog” Mattis. All were guided by principles that include focusing on what you can control, taking action, being virtuous, leading by example, showing resilience in difficult times, being grateful, and choosing how they reacted to things. Google stoicism and you’ll find plenty out there on the subject and all it entails.

Over the course of my life and as documented in “The Great Book of Peterisms”, I have found many quotes, sayings, and movie lines that are stoic in nature and I finally decided to turn some of my favorite stoics and their thoughts towards a parenting philosophy to pass on to other Dads. The master list can be found here but let’s look as some of my favorite philosophy quotes and apply them to the spectrum of “Dadness”.

Giving a hand up and not a hand out

Be careful to leave your sons (and daughters) well instructed rather than rich, for the hopes of the instructed are better than the wealth of the ignorant. – The Discourses, CXLV

Teaching your children self care, responsibility, technical knowledge and basically how to live will always be paramount. Yes, provide for them, but don’t forget to show them the way. Like a Mandalorian.

Epictetus said “When someone is properly grounded in life, they shouldn’t have to look outside themselves for approval.” I am sure they hope for us to pass on tangible riches, but I think they see themselves as rich already given the support they have to be awesome in their own ways compared to some of the unluckier peers around them.

I love the kid who has the new car and the expensive watch from his Disney Dad, but he couldn’t change a tire or put clothes in the dryer to save his life.

Opportunities through difficulties

“If you have passed through life without an opponent—no one can ever know what you are capable of, not even you.” – Seneca AND “Don’t aim to be perfect. Aim to be antifragile.”-Nassim Nicholas Taleb.

I am a huge fan of learning from failure or mistakes and not helicopter parenting. That has already set up one gen for failure and I already feel bad for their kids.

Being there for your kids when things don’t go right is a must. Asking after action questions about what should have been done different and what is going to change so the same results do not happen will give your kids a better foundation than giving them the WTF were you thinking approach.

Not everyone gets a trophy for trying and whenever my son complains about a difficult task or taking on a new project I give him the entrepreneur meme I read somewhere about doing the things that others won’t do today so you can do things that others can’t do later.

You don’t deserve anything

“A fit body, a calm mind, a house full of love. These things cannot be bought — they must be earned.”-Naval Ravikant.

Like the final words of Captain Miller to Private Ryan when his life is draining in the final moments of the movie. “Earn this” are his parting words of wisdom.

I am grateful everyday for the opportunities I have had and the experiences I have daily with my family. As I have aged, I do not want to rule to world as much as I want to try to enjoy it and watch those that I am responsible for grow in their own ways. In fact, on the subject of enjoying more, I recently flipped my thought process from complaint based to more appreciation based. Like bitching about the left less and more about being grateful that you have the freedom to bitch. Like bitching about paying taxes but being grateful that I am in a position to pay them.

Some of the things I have could be luck, but as Seneca stated, “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” Teach your the kids to take nothing for granted, be prepared, and always try to give more than they receive. Givers get and there is no room for takers.

Seize the moment

“You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do, say and think.”-Marcus Aurelius.

This is more than the YOLO crowd and is in line with how I think you should develop vision statements for organizations. You can associate it with the “turd test”, the “mom test”, and the “golden rule” that I have driven into the kids. Same as the thought that you can do 1000 great things but it takes one bad decision to make you memorable.

I like the question “what do you want on your tombstone” for people to remember you by? Keeps it short and sweet. I see way too many vision and mission statements that have hundreds of words but don’t tell you anything. I actually had a standing joke with my philosophy professor, since I did not easily accept being told I was wrong, that my epitaph would read “I told you I was sick”. I win.

This quote is also for taking action. There are opportunities to parent every single minute and missing those opportunities could be harmful long term. You’ll regret not taking them. I am not talking about the Boomer/Millennial failures of coddling and pacifying the world, but rather dealing with problems like an after action report from a military operation. Want to strengthen your kids? Ask what did they learn, what happens next time, what should have happened, and what do you need from me to help?

One of the latest books I have on taking action states that there are no lack of ideas of what to do, but rather a complete lack of initiative in world.

Yes, opinions ARE like A-holes.

“Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.”-Marcus Aurelius.

Teaching kids to critically think for themselves is priceless and seems to be in short supply. I’ve watched all my kids regurgitate some of the thoughts and beliefs my wife and I have, but I have made sure that they understand why we think like that and that it is important to have your own opinions but respect others. Respect, objectivity, and pragmatism seem to be missing in the world when you hear opinions and perspectives that are not yours.

Change it

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”-Viktor Frankl.

There are two types of people. Those that let the situation control them and those that can change the situation. Remember what someone replies to you when you state “it hurts when I do this”? I let the kids complain once about something and then they get the previous sentence handed to them if I hear the same complaint twice. Then, if they can’t change something, they need to find a new something.

You’ll be fine

“It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”-Epictetus.

An operations manager that I worked with had one response for every complaint he heard from others. “You’ll be fine” was burned into brain and is now my first response to others that complain. Shit happens and it will happen again. Milk spills. That may sound Taoist but it’s the truth and I believe that how you react to something is actually a choice and can be up to 95% of the actual problem. Like Jack Sparrow said: The problem is not the problem, the problem is your attitude about the problem. Parenting when shit happens gives you more opportunities to develop your kids foundation to deal with future problems of their own.

Epictetus also said “the more we value things outside our control, the less control we have” and I like what Voltaire wrote about “life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget to sing in the lifeboats.”

Patience is a virtue

“No great thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig.”-Epictetus.

My wife wishes I had more patience for sure. Doesn’t mean you have to like it but our kids are set up for failure by Amazon drone deliveries and the instant acquisition of wants and needs available in drive-thru windows. This goes with the thoughts at the beginning of this post for providing a hand up and even teaching your kids to fish. Involve your kids with projects like painting, gardening, building models, working on cars, landscaping the yard, and even raising pets. There are some things that take time but you can tangibly see the results of your labor.

A wise friend of my dads once said “nine women can’t give you a a baby in one month” and ever since I heard that line, I have used it for projects that have a natural pace that you can’t impact.

Some of the coolest moments I have had as a dad have come through teaching my kids how to do something. Operating the boat, sighting in a rifle, installing flooring, changing the oil, driving a car, and even painting their own rooms can’t be delivered by drones from Amazon or experienced by looking at your silicon master.

Focus on what matters

Relentlessly prune bullshit, don’t wait to do things that matter, and savor the time you have. – Paul Graham

Seems simple but it’s actually pretty hard. It seems like we are always trying to keep up with the Jones’s, buying things out of fear of missing out syndrome, coveting what others post about, and making sure the world around us digs us. Lose the phones, go for a hike with your kids and dogs, watch the sunset from the beach, have some cocktails around the bonfire, and then don’t post anything about it. Donald

Rumsfeld said you should prune your business, services, people, and activities annually. I’m trying to take that to a next level with teaching the kids to prune out the BS.

Do as you say

Don’t explain your philosophy. Embody it. – Epictetus

Like Yoda said; “there is not try, only do”. I’m an open book and like to think my values and beliefs are mimicked by my actions on work and family life but with so much hypocrisy and superficiality in the world around us, it can be difficult to filter out the BS and easy to get caught up in drama that isn’t yours. But guess what? You can choose to ignore it and it’s choice to even let it impact you.

We talk a lot as a family about the world we are in and our kids actions speak for themselves in sports, school, and even in their own jobs. It’s fun to watch them do the right things for the right reasons the right way at the right time and get recognized for it. Scroll up for a reminder of the stoic principles: focusing on what you can control, taking action, being virtuous, leading by example, showing resilience in difficult times, being grateful, and choosing how they react to things. This will provide a great launch pad for your kids to grow.

“Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” Marcus Aurelius

“Waste no more time arguing what a good dad should be. Be one.” Peter Rathmann

Long live parenting!

January 6, 2022  

Hope is not strategic, but it can keep your plan alive.

This post was inspired by two events.

The first was years ago when a good friend made the comment “Hope is not strategic” when we were pre-gaming a project that was set up to fail from the beginning with a shared client. We were called in to help save the project after we both actually pitched to be part of the project originally. The project managers never had a real plan and were heard saying “they hoped it was going to work” when asked what they were thinking or expecting when they started on their path. The line “hope is not strategic” is now commonly used in the beginning of my executive meetings and one of the fan favorites in “The Great Book of “Peterisms” found here.

The second was a result of reading through various prepper blogs when we started experiencing supply chain issues, seeing signs going up in the stores about purchase limits, and having some of the weekly staples we purchase either not being available or the prices rise at a historical pace. And most recently, the crazy fires that swept through Boulder CO, the winter storm that stranded drivers on I95 in Virginia, and the reports out of China from their most recent lockdowns where an entire city ran out of food.

In one of the prepper blog readings, the author states what many survivalists preach; that a person can survive 3 weeks without food, 3 days without water, 3 hours in extreme weather, and 3 minutes without air. The author also stated that you can lose hope in less than 3 seconds. It was this last figure that got me thinking about why would you lose hope and how do you maintain it when you are staring at or finding yourself in a hopeless situation?

Hope is defined in Websters as a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen and that you believe it is possible to achieve it.

Losing hope means you stop believing that something you want to happen could happen and that it might not be possible at all. Something makes you quit believing that you can succeed or even proceed further and that can happen very quickly.

When the characters Cassian Andor and later Jyn Erso say “Rebellions are built on hope” in Rogue One, it sets the stage for all of the next chapters in Star Wars where we know how the story mostly ends. There were sure a lot of strategies throughout the various movies, some only temporarily successful. They seem to have ended in the positive for the rebellion, but how did hope play a role and how did they not lose it?

Think about all the other movies that have a similar story line of certain doom and defeat but the good guys end up winning. In all of them, hope seemed to be fading but it was never completely lost. The end of Saving Private Ryan where Tom Hanks’ character is shooting his .45 1911 Colt at a German tank as a P-51 saves the day is another great example and how about the final battle in Infinity Wars when the rest of the help shows up? Same with the final Star Wars movie The Rise of Skywalker when the entire rebellion shows up as Poe is admitting defeat. Epic shit!

Believe it or not, there is not much on the inter-web about losing hope, not much money is selling hopelessness, but I found a few ways how one may lose hope on a PsychCentral’s website post:

  1. You may never have had hope from the beginning. You may not have even developed the level of thinking or built the resilience to navigate simple struggles when things prevent you from achieving something.
  2. You may have lost the connections you had to hope. Going into 2020 and then into 2021, there was a lot of uncertainty and changes that left a lot of people transitioned into a dark place. Being called unessential by the government, having the values that you identify with attempting to be cancelled, having loved ones not get the help they need medically, and not being able to navigate the “new normal” in working from home took a toll on lots of people.
  3. You may have been a victim of actions that you cannot control. The Waukesha Christmas Parade is a perfect example. How are you supposed to prepare for anything that evil. A failed judicial system, and political atmosphere that favors criminal behavior over the rights and well being of honest and productive citizens, other peoples agendas and beliefs being pushed by media, even unnecessary policies and mandates can all make you feel like you have no control over what happens to you.
  4. You may just be burned out. At the end of the day, leading is not as easy as best selling books make it look and if you don’t take care of yourself, you can get exhausted and overwhelmed to a point where life seems to just want to run over you. You no longer feel able to manage your responsibilities and you develop a negative and cynical view of the world and others. You just feel defeated no matter what you do.

I’ll tell you that mid way through 2021, we were all losing some hope at the shop based on market conditions, failed economic and health policies based on politics and not objective practicality, a media system focused on raising blood pressures and not truth, and misplaced energy on causes that derail the values and traditions that got us where we were. At the end of the day, I did not see anyone looting work clothes and work boots during what were declared to be “peaceful” riots. You had a Governor that sided with criminals and not law enforcement or law abiding citizens on social media, and we were told to feel guilty for being who we are because we used pronouns that are appropriate. Not to mention the double standards that existed for both elected and appointed officials that were telling us to do the opposite of what they practiced: Gun control nuts that surrounded themselves with armed guards, one percenters telling us to save energy while they fly private jets to climate summits, leaders that get their hair done at days spas when they demanded non-essential businesses and workers be put on the sideline, riots that caused more damage than anytime in history being called peaceful by media, even the neighbor that flies the BLM flag but yet lives in the least integrated part of the state, sends their kids to the least integrated schools and is the first to call the sheriff when a “suspicious” car drives through. Classics.

At the shop, the uncertainty felt and hypocrisy observed in the world led to fear, mistrust, doubt, and caused numerous distracting conversations which took our eyes off the prize of on time with the highest quality. The fact that I had family and employees looking at me for hope kept me going. I did not see it as a choice. It really did not matter the day I had. I found people looking at me with even more concern, uncertainty, and more doubt than I was feeling and I felt a sense of duty to keep going by telling myself it couldn’t get worse and focused on the next right actions even though I felt like I was the captain of a refugee raft being being blown in the wrong direction.

I have have been blessed with great mentors that have been sounding boards for growth and inspired me to not quit. I still talk to some of them often. I have unfortunately also had some great people that I considered pillars of strength melt down and shut down in the past two years. Just look at the great resignation. It is not all bell ringers and crossing guards retiring like 46 thinks.

Through many conversations, I found that I was not alone in this hopeless feeling that I felt and there were solutions to these new problems by repurposing success found in the past, just from different aspects. I have always believed in surrounding myself with older and smarter people that have navigated the same issues before I had but here we are in the same boat building the play book while a game that nobody has played before is being played.

So how did and do I maintain and find hope when hope seems to leave the planet? How do you keep hope alive when everything you believe in is being attacked and you feel like things are out of your control? I started looking at what we have accomplished and gained on from where we were pre-pandemic. I started looking at what we had working for us and not against us and I discovered that we had actually accomplished things that we did not think we could actually accomplish when we set the goals.

Experts with more psychological understanding than myself state that setting and achieving goals, even simple ones, contributes to hope. When you are able to reach your goals, there is a sense of achievement and validation that instills more hope and gives you the confidence and motivation to set and achieve more goals. Nothing is more satisfying than to check a box on the getter done list and in this sense, empowering yourself by setting and achieving goals was the key. Of course these goals should follow the specific, measurable, actionable, realistic and timebound format. If you are not familiar with the acronym “SMART” for goal setting, there are plenty of blogs our there so I won’t expand on it here. I actually like the newer spin on SMART setting SMARTER goals from Michael Hyatt in his book “Your Best Year Ever”. You can read more about it here.

You can start with a big goal or or small one but get started and don’t get stuck in analysis paralysis thinking you need 100% of the information in place before you do. George Patton stated that “a good plan, violently executed now, is better than a perfect plan next week“. You can build Rome or you can lose five pounds. You can double the size of your company or you can just reorganize one process for efficiencies. Of all the things you could work on to improve in your life, in the life of those around you, in your business, and even the world, you should write them down, and then spend some time prioritizing them and even involving others for input and ideas on achievement. Be SMART about it and make sure you do not have too many. Boiling the ocean is not possible and neither is gaining my college body back.

I will tell you that the best business goal set and business move we made in the past 18 months was NOT my idea and I give full credit to the others. Also, the best goal I have personally right now came from a realization during conversation on a dinner date with my wife and although I am moving the chains on it, it has required some adaptation in strategies and attacking some beliefs that have held me back.

Once your goals are organized and prioritized, you should make the goals that are agreed to be possible known and visible to appropriate stakeholders that can help you stay on track.

I happened across a nifty graphic one day while looking for a new format to keep our vision, our strategies, and all of our business driving goals and metrics visible and accountable for progress. It’s truly the only accountability tool I have seen work and we update it weekly for our meetings to use it as a living dashboard. We check on progress weekly and I like the idea of measuring the gains on the goals and not the gap as told by Omar Itani here.

Our business drivers include structure, sales, quoting, operations, finance, and culture and each bucket has it’s own goals based on our vision with three key leading indicators each that define and show progress on achievement. Structurally, we want to have the proper alignment, balance, and accountability. For sales, we have activity, volume, and profitability goals and metrics. For quoting, we measure the time to respond, meeting of our proforma standards, and project qualification minimums for our capabilities. For operations, we have labor efficiency, machine scheduling, and on-time delivery metrics. For finance, we have timely reporting, certain income statement ratios, and process controls in the ERP for proper reporting. And finally for culture, we have adopted the tactics from the book “FISH” and challenge each other for adoption, we recruit those that can help and force us to grow, and make sure we are adding value to ourselves and the community around us by giving back and having fun.

If that is not enough, I also have a secondary tool I developed for myself to keep my next best steps as a leader organized by the relative buckets of value they fall into for the organization and make them time-bound. This was outlined in the post about our “Quattro V” formula found here.

The achievement of our goals was not as easy as just writing them down and not everyone is going to have your sense of urgency to achieve them. This is where leadership is needed and stewardship needs to be escorted out.

Let’s revisit how you lose hope again. When working toward any goal, there’s likely to be some unexpected situations that occur and you need to be ready to deal with obstacles and setbacks as they arise. You can try to identify what barriers you could run into and how to be prepared to manage these, but there will be others you did not expect. Remember, what can blow up will. When it does, 95% of the solution will be how you deal with it and you need to be ready to adapt the plan and tactics and do not under any circumstance use these hurdles as an excuse to give up.

There is also a natural pace of others and activities that you may have to accept, but if there is progress or gains, then do as much as you can to keep right activities going and accelerate it. Additionally, if there is something that is not working towards the achievement of your goal or goals, change tactics, find different resources, and delegate to different people. Each room in my company has a sign with a big red target printed on it and the words “bang head here” across it to remind us about the definition of insanity and to remind us to look at different options when we are running into diminishing returns on activities.

The title of this post changed seven times while I was writing and editing it and I go back to my friends comment about hope not being strategic. This is the same friend that invented the word “strategery”. I am a pragmatic objective individual that tries to stick to logic most of the time but hope has helped in the past two years.

  1. https://psychcentral.com/blog/positive-psychology/2011/04/how-we-lose-hope-and-how-to-get-it-back#1
November 14, 2021  

Using The Quattro V Formula For Success

This is a follow up to the post made in March of 2020 about leading through an existential threat after several business contacts asked us how we are making it through the interesting times of 2021.

Leading a company in the past 20 months has been interesting to say the least. Existential threats from a pandemic, government actions from unqualified and unelected appointed individuals that threaten business continuity, wasted energy from social causes, lack of objectivity in new reporting, and useless political rhetoric make it difficult to keep your eyes on the prize of creating value for your stakeholders.

How have we been successful? It has been through a constant management and fluid development of our ongoing business goals which we keep organized into four buckets we named vision, volume, velocity, and value. We call this our “Quattro V Formula” and it keeps us on track while remaining agile and responsive to customers needs and keeps us moving the chains on short term and long term projects that improve the business.

I’ll break these buckets down for you and give you examples of how we use these buckets with the hope it sparks some new ideas or validates some plans you have been working on or need to get working on.

Vision

Vision is about the things we want to be remembered for. Essentially what would you want your tombstones to say and it does not have to be just one thing. Our current goals under our vision bucket include providing the highest quality on time all the time (ISO), being the go to shop for customers that value expertise and experience, being a leader in local manufacturing thought leadership, being agile, responsive and available to customers, and being an organization of continuous improvements and learning.

This should not be confused with your potential mission statement. I often see vision and mission interchanged, somewhat overlapping, and usually way too fluffy to be useful. To us, the mission statements are the who, what, when, where and how you are executing on activities and the goals that will earn you to your vision.

For instance, on our vision goal of being agile, responsive, and available to customers, we build a project center, integrated and new quoting software with a customer friendly interface and keep customers informed about project progress with real time production data from our ERP system. Make no mistake, we still mess a few things up and there are a few things that we say no to, but we are transparent about the solution and quicker to say no to business that does not fit us with at least an introduction to a different shop that might be able to service them.

On being a leader in local manufacturing thought leadership, I sit on the advisory panel for the UAA program at MATC, my production engineer is on the board of MATC for the apprentice program, we sponsor tables at industry events for speakers on topics of economics, leadership, automation, and strategy to invite customer to, and meet with our strategic vendors regularly to understand how we can work smarter together for shared growth.

Volume

The goals in our volume bucket are focused on growth. These are the activities that lead to increased opportunities, strengthen relationships in the market, and increase sales new and existing customer sales. We are a classic job shop that services over twelve industries where business cycles and market trends lead to an ever changing top 25 accounts and work mix so we need to keep talking to people about what they do and how we can help. It is the equivalent of a shark needing to keep moving for oxygen to flow through their gills.

As an example in this bucket, we have a goal of talking reaching out to 10 new customers, 10 existing customers, and 10 strategic partners on a weekly basis. We also have a goal of meeting with three prospects about new business, three customers about more business, and three meetings where we are introducing two people that do not know each other but we know they should be doing business together. We have a goal of $100K in orders and $100K in shipments weekly which means we need to be quoting around $500K per week. We also have a goal of turning quotes around in 24 hours for level one and two parts and three days on more complex projects. Current supply chain responsiveness keeps this last mentioned goal interesting interesting to achieve which is why we have swapped out over a dozen vendors in the past twelve months.

Velocity

Our velocity goals are focused on accelerating production and shipments to the customer. Time is the one things we can not create more of but we can sure try to use less of it. These goals can be the purchasing of better tooling for faster material removal, designing fixtures to increase spindle time and minimize set up time, recruiting to help find more talented direct employees, outsourcing certain services that other partners can do faster and better, and even using our own truck for delivery and acquisition of materials and services so we do not have to wait for our vendors to deliver.

Value

Your number one priority in a business leadership role is to create and increase value for all of the stakeholders around you. Stakeholders can be employees, customers, investors, vendors, other businesses in your industry association, causes you sponsor or advise, and even the community that your business operates in.

Increasing wages, donating to the local high school’s robotic team, mentoring students in the trades, increasing net profits for the investors, painting a mural on the side of your industrial building that faces a bike trail, adding moisture collectors to your machine centers for better air quality, upgrading inside lighting to LED, paying employees for Christmas Eve as a holiday, hosting a customer appreciation party, and even improving internal communications are all great examples of increasing value.

But don’t confuse the success of the activity of creating value with the actual results of the activity. Value needs to be tangible and measurable to be meaningful. Sending your management team to an industry seminar or leadership training is meaningless if there are no improvements to operations or better performance measured in your operations and financial leading indicators. Increasing wages just increases expenses unless it is tied to performance and improves value to customers and thus the business.

Our latest undertaking is to control our ever rising health care expenses that every company suffers. There is no value in cost shifting, carving out benefits, switching carriers, or simply discontinuing a program offering just because it is minimally used. Sure there are some short term cost savings to the income statement but you have taken away value to the employees. Instead, we have decided to maintain the plan design we have, but are requiring the participants in the plan to qualify for their deductible reimbursement by seeing to their preventative wellness check ups in the previous plan year and register for a third party counseling services that helps our plan members become better consumers of their own healthcare. With this tactic, we are offering our employees the opportunity to identify and navigate health risks earlier for a better quality of life and we are looking to minimize the catastrophic claims and unnecessary hospital visits that torpedo the out of pocket expenses and plan costs to the company profits.

Another successful win in value creation was realized through a labor efficiency bonus that not only increases the employee take home pay, but gives us 110% utilization of direct production hours through multi-tasking and pro-active scheduling of jobs through the shop floor. Every employee wants more money and every company wants more production from them. By giving the employees the chance to achieve the bonus and the ability to measure it and make it transparent internally, we have raised the income per employee over 20% in the past six months with the same FTE head count.

After years of missing delivery deadlines because of poor scheduling and not ordering material effectively, we found a new ERP package that has our late orders down to 5% and provides us with the business intelligence we need to target better business based on contribution and reports our financials to the investors much quicker. This little undertaking did cause some headaches but the result has been a 300% increase in operating profit in a sales year that was down -5%.

Transforming the dull grey north wall of our industrial building that faces the local bike path with a mural that depicts the history of manufacturing in our community is next. Not only is the project in line with the DNR objectives for the bike path but it also helps tell people who we are, what we do, showcases the business impact we make in the community and helps the DNR since we know maintain the area around the bike path as their budgets for maintenance have been decreased.

What additional value are you building for your stakeholders? Is it meaningful and can the results be measured so your activities to get there are worth the time and efforts?

Finale

I work from a list of to do’s and to don’ts and a fluid plan that is driven by the prioritization within the four bucket of goals. This list gets some items checked off quickly and the list is fluid in nature based on what I can control, what I can delegate, and what I can make an impact on. I have learned that some projects have a mind of their own and certain timelines for success can be stretched depending on how many people are involved and the responsiveness of other parties.

This list is organized into three categories as well. The first is the to do’s that must to get done or something is going to eat my family. Of course my family is not going to be eaten but the metaphor should show how important these tasks are. The next level are the tasks that I need to do because someone else is depending on in. The third is the list of things I want to do and are more of the nice to do tasks rather than the necessary tasks previously listed. Must do, need to do, want to do. The want to do’s never get attention unless the other two categories are done or have as much progress as possible made on them.

Everyone knows that no plan survives first contact and we know that what can blow up will blow up as an organization but how we react is 95% of the solution. Developing the goals and creating your to do list at least provides you with a plan to go back to once the fires are out. What’s the saying about failing to plan is planning to fail and if you don’t know where you’re going any road will get you there?

I would enjoy hearing how you have navigated the past 18 months and what you have done to come out stronger. Please feel free to reach out, drop a useful comment, or stop by the shop when you have time.

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The Great Book of Peterisms

Just to be clear and give credit where due, none of these are original to me. These have been collected over the years from readings, conversations, speakers, presentations, mentors, billboards, fortune cookies, friends, relatives, clients, employees, and co-workers. I have tried to give credit where I could and if I offend, remember it was your free will that chose to read this. Enjoy!

“In the beginning the Universe was created. This has made many people very angry and has been widely regarded as a bad move.” -Douglas Adams and The Hitchhikers Guide to The Galaxy #42

“To help you, I have to hurt you!” – Grace Rathmann

“It’s nice to be important but it’s important to be nice” – Brendan McCarthy’s Dad.

“If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything” – Mark Twain

If it doesn’t fit, force it – Eleanor Roosevelt as well as “if it breaks, it needed replacing anyway,”

“The best way to predict the future is to create it.” – Abraham Lincoln

“Liberty does not exist where rights are on one side and power on the other. To be liberty, rights must be armed with vital powers. A people cannot be free who do not participate in the control of the government which operates upon them.” – Lucius Quintus Cincinnatus

“If everything seems under control, you are just not going fast enough” – Mario Andretti

“No, not the green one!” – Tyler Durden

“First, being trained to a highly proficient level does not guarantee that the individual will perform well under force pressure. Second, the lack of training does not guarantee that the individual will not perform well under force pressure.” ― Varg Freeborn, Beyond OODA: Developing the Orientation for Deception, Conflict and Violence

“Don’t get old” – Erna Clara Rathmann (my Grandma) when asked what advice she could offer at her 100th birthday party in 2013 while sipping a margarita.

“Strategies begin with a verb” – Ivan Rosenberg

“Great results can be achieved with small forces” -Sun Tzu

“We cannot spend the day in explanation” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“A Tree Never Hits An Automobile Except In Self Defense.” – Woody Allen

“Today I will do what others won’t so tomorrow I can do what others can’t.”— Jerry Rice

“The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.”— Walter Bagehot

“If you don’t make the time to work on creating the life you want, you’re eventually going to be forced to spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don’t want.”— Kevin Ngo

“If you want something you have never had, you must be willing to do something you have never done.”-Thomas Jefferson

“Bad attitude is the only real disability” – Scott Hamilton

“Two things I hate, losing and catching cancer” – Kenny Powers

“To heal you I have to hurt you”- Grace (my nursing student daughter) after her shift today

“Sometimes the only cure is death” – Grace as well

“Science progresses one death at a time” Joe Rogan guest talking about new theories being accepted only after the academic that fights against it dies.

“There is no lifeguard for the gene pool.”-Steven Wright

“Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something” – Plato

“The poison was never forced — it was offered gently, until you forgot it was poison at all.” – Mark Twain

“I hear mama sounds the same on any tongue “ and “I hear sorrow tastes the same on every tongue “ – David Gilmour song

“Stretch or starve” – Fergus at the B & B in Blarney while talking about growing up with 11 siblings when the food was placed on the dinner table.

“Give them bread and circuses” Referring to keeping people distracted from what is actually going on-is attributed to Juvenal, a Roman poet

“Without courage, truth is an orphan” -is attributed to the South Korean author and activist Kim Dae-jung.

“Eliminate non-urgent and unimportant things. Delegate or automate urgent but unimportant. Urgent and important stuff now has time for completion but do them un-distracted and efficiently.”-Eisenhower

“You don’t have to have an opinion about that. I think about that all the time—I don’t have to have an opinion about this, I can just let it be, I can ignore it, I can realize it doesn’t pertain to me, or I can just see it as it is. I don’t need to say that it’s good or bad, fair or unfair—it just is. I’m going to look at it as an objective piece of information. It doesn’t need me projecting my thoughts or beliefs or perceptions on it. You don’t have to have an opinion about this.” – Marcus Aurelius

“If you want a golden rule that will fit everybody, this is it: Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.” — William Morris (I had to wiki him when I read this quote)

“Even a dead cat bounces once” – Economist Brian Beaulieu in reference to the Brandon stock market rebounds.

“The greatest trick the Devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn’t exist” -Keyser Soze

“Don’t miss the elephant while trying to stomp the ants” – Can’t remember

“Leadership consists of nothing but taking responsibility for everything that goes wrong and giving your subordinates credit for everything that goes well” – Eisenhower

“Be careful to leave your sons well instructed rather than rich, for the hopes of the instructed are better than the wealth of the ignorant.” – The Discourses, CXLV

“I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve (or save) the world and a desire to enjoy (or savor) the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.”-E.B. White

“A good plan, violently executed now, is better than a perfect plan next week” — George Patton

“Efficiency is doing things right; effectiveness is doing the right thing.” – Team of Teams

“If you have to pick a side, you’ve already lost.’ -Rick Desens. 

“One fifth of the people are against everything all the time” – Robert Kennedy

“Learn to say “no” because every time you say yes to something you don’t really want to do, you are saying no to the things you are doing or want to do” – Tom Hanks

“9 women can’t give you a baby in one month.” – Ed Holmann

“Knocking up 9 women won’t give you a baby in one month” – Warren Buffet

“No risk it, no biscuit.” – Bruce Ariens

“Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.” – Marcus Aurelius

“Nothing travels faster than the speed of light with the possible exception of bad news, which obeys its own special laws.” – Douglas Adams

“Don’t Panic”-Hitchhiker’s Guide to The Galaxy

“Before all else, be armed.”-Niccolo Machiavelli

“Confidence is going after Moby Dick in a row boat and packing the tartar sauce.” – Zig Ziglar

“Our grass isn’t right for everyone”.-Ted Rolfs

“Take the time to do it right because we don’t have time to do it again.” – Carl Rathmann

“I would rather deal with harsh reality than living in false hope.”-Dr. Clarkson on Downton Abbey

“Never put yourself in a position where you are afraid of the truth”-Winston Churchill through Bob

“We’re paid to be productive, not busy.”

“There is no shortage of great ideas, but rather a shortage of initiative to use them”

“Good fences make good neighbors.” – A contract law attorney

“Stereotypes make things so much easier”-Unnamed mentor

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” -Churchill 

“If you see something wrong, you can either do something or nothing. Nothing’s already been tried.” – Wonder Woman

“Pigs get fat, hogs get slaughtered” – Jim Graff

“When starting at the bottom, be willing to learn from those at the top.”

“Never let a good crisis go to waste.”-Some dipshit in politics 

“The tail is only there to support the teeth.”-Rumsfeld’s Rules

“If you want traction, you first need friction.”

“F-E-A-R has two meanings: ‘Forget Everything And Run’ or ‘Face Everything And Rise.’ The choice is yours.” – Zig Ziglar

“Government does two things well, nothing and overreact.” -Rumsfeld’s Rules

“Trouble with socialism is that you eventually run out of other people’s money.”

“What you see is what you get. What you don’t see gets you.”

“You go to war with the army you have, not the army you might wish to have.”

“Three kinds of people. Those that make things happen, those that watch things happen, and those that wonder what happened.”

“Leadership is by consent, not command. Leaders must persuade.”

“Don’t let the urgent crowd out the important.”

“Disagreement is not disloyalty.”

“The world is run by those who show up.”

“If you expect people to be in on the landing, include them in the takeoff.”

“Prune businesses, products, activities, and people annually.” 

“Anyone has the ability to review something and make it better, few are able to identify what is missing.”

“Talent hits a target no one else can hit, genius hits a target no one else can see.”

“Never hire anyone you can’t fire.”

“If you are not criticized, you may not be doing much.” – Rumsfeld

“If you are coasting, you’re going downhill.” 

“Working from your inbox is working on other people’s priorities.” 

“If you can’t list your top 3 priorities, you don’t have any.”

“No plan survives first contact with the enemy.” 

“Those who know don’t talk. Those who talk don’t know.” 

“Warning time not used is wasted time. It’s like a runway behind the pilot.”

“Never assume the other guy will never do something you would never do.”

“Sometimes winners are the ones willing to do what others wouldn’t.” 

“First reports are often wrong.”

“Proper preparation prevents poor performance.”

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.”

“Speed kills (wins). It creates opportunity, denies options, and hastens the enemy’s collapse.” Gen. Norman Schwartzkopf

“Trust leaves on horseback but returns on foot.” 

“If it doesn’t go easy, force it.”

“Keep one in the clip.” – John Schira 

“You always have two choices: your commitment versus your fear.”

“If you don’t like change, you’re going to like irrelevance even less.”

“There are losers, users, and fusers.  How are you making the pie bigger for everyone to share.”

“God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason.”

“Don’t confuse the success of the channel or activity with the contribution to the business.” – @Robert_Rose @BMA_Milwaukee

8 Things to Build a Business -Howard Trudell, CEO 1871

  1. Tell a simple story
  2. Keep raising the bar
  3. Get started! The screenplay is never the movie that is made but you need to start somewhere
  4. Make cheap mistakes
  5. Make room for people
  6. Can’t add value without values
  7. Run like the wind and don’t look back
  8. Don’t think for a minute that you’re doing it for someone else.

“Only winners decide what war crimes are.”

“Nail it then scale it.”

“Have in-game amnesia (short term memory or be a gold fish for you Ted Lasso fans) and focus forward and do what is right today.”

“If you are in a hole, stop digging!”

“You can put more steak sauce on your hot dog but it is still a wiener.”

“It’s a business not a romance.”

“Sometimes the baby actually is ugly (tell people when they have a bad idea)”

“Hope” is not strategic!

“You get what you work for, not what you wish for.”

“Values change based on life stage and business stage so be careful not to serve too many masters.”

“Have a goal….If you do not know where you are going, any road will get you there.”

“You don’t build a lighthouse to go find ships.” – Heather Mangold

“2 different kinds of people…..Those that allow circumstances to change them and those that go change the circumstances.”

“If you have a 6 month sales cycle, then doing nothing today guarantees you will have nothing 6 months from now.”

“Mentoring can be two-way.”

“Don’t let the limitations of others define you.”

“I don’t know” used to mean you were dumb or ignorant, now it just means you are lazy…..Google it!

“The first thing you should do before starting a business is to go out and talk to 100 prospective customers.”

“Never teach a pig to sing…..It wastes your time and annoys the pig.”-From the office wall of Carl Rathmann.

“Never wrestle with a pig because you just get muddy and the pig actually enjoys it” – Someone else.

“If you want clear water, go to the head of the stream.”-Walter Goggins character in Justified

“If all you have is a hammer, then every problem looks like a nail.”

“Do it or not. There is no try.” – Yoda, Jedi Master.

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese proverb.

“When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.” Henry Ford

“Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover.” Mark Twain

“A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.” – Albert Einstein

“I’m convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.” – Steve Jobs

“The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.” – Walt Disney

“You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.” Wayne Gretzky

“There are no traffic jams on the extra mile.” – Zig Ziglar

“Do not be embarrassed by your failures, learn from them and start again.” – Richard Branson

“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius.

“It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up.” – Babe Ruth

“For all of the most important things, the timing always sucks. Waiting for a good time to quit your job? The stars will never align and the traffic lights of life will never all be green at the same time. The universe doesn’t conspire against you, but it doesn’t go out of its way to line up the pins either. Conditions are never perfect. “Someday” is a disease that will take your dreams to the grave with you. Pro and con lists are just as bad. If it’s important to you and you want to do it “eventually,” just do it and correct course along the way.”- Timothy Ferriss

“The media wants overnight successes (so they have someone to tear down). Ignore them. Ignore the early adopter critics that never have enough to play with. Ignore your investors that want proven tactics and predictable instant results. Listen instead to your real customers, to your vision and make something for the long haul. Because that’s how long it’s going to take, guys. – Seth Godin

“Don’t worry about funding if you don’t need it. Today it’s cheaper to start a business than ever.”- Noah Everett

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” – Thomas Edison, inventor.

“Entrepreneurship is neither a science nor an art. It is a practice.” – Peter Drucker, management consultant, educator, and author.

“In the modern world of business, it is useless to be a creative, original thinker unless you can also sell what you create.” – David Ogilvy

“It doesn’t matter how many times you fail. It doesn’t matter how many times you almost get it right. No one is going to know or care about your failures, and neither should you. All you have to do is learn from them and those around you because all that matters in business is that you get it right once. Then everyone can tell you how lucky you are.” – Mark Cuban

“Success is how high you bounce after you hit bottom.” – General George Patton.

“Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.” – Zig Ziglar, author, salesman, and motivational speaker.

From Mark Rodgers – The Persuasion Equation: 5 Characteristics of Persuasion (Scale of 1 to 10, you should be a …..)

  1. Assertiveness (7)
  2. Empathetic (8)
  3. Communication (10)
  4. Tenacious (5)
  5. Resilient (5)

80% of people are idealists, 20% are pragmatists……Guess what Peter is?

Users of persuasion: Mindless, Machiavellian, Savvy

“You need to have congruence in selling….can’t sell it if you don’t believe in it…….Shouldn’t sell motorcycles if you think they are dangerous and overpriced.”

“Where a person stands depends on where they sit.”

When talking to a new person, use the (FORM) framework to structure the conversation (F) Family (O) Occupation (R) Recreation (M) Motivation

ART: Acknowledge, Respond, Transition – OVERCOMING OBJECTIONS

Use the “Triad” to prove your point….Rule of 3’s.  3 examples of things…NOT 4.  3 is the charm, 4 is the harm.

“Can you show them what the price of doing nothing is?”

“Progress…..not perfection”

“When you pray for rain, you are going to have to deal with the mud too.”

“Every assassin needs a bullet maker.”-Bill King

“Anyone can lead in peacetime…..Real leadership comes through hard decisions in the battle.”

“You’re not superior, you’re not inferior, you’re just you.” – Psycho Cybernetics 

“Time is your biggest enemy.”

“Attunement, Buoyancy, Clarity” (New ABC’s of selling)

“40% of your time is already selling” (24 minutes of every hour)

“Givers get. Takers kiss up and kick down” – From the book

“Don’t confuse the success of the activity with the contribution to the business.” – Dude at a conference I attended.

“Sell low and close high” – Jerry Lynn

“A hammer doesn’t swing itself” – Brad Van Damm

“The things that can be counted may not be worth counting.”

“Nobody knows until you expose” Jerry Lynn ( I ended up firing this guy!!!)

“Autopsies shouldn’t be conducted by the murder” – Ann Coulter after the RNC was investigating why they could not get anyone other than Trump on their ticket.

‘You don’t know your limits until you exceed them” – Rob Bob

“Profit is an attitude.” – Ted Rolfs

“There is no more exhilarating of a feeling than being shot at and missed”- Maddog Mattis

”When tyranny becomes law, rebellion becomes duty.”-Thomas Jefferson

“What we do in life echoes in eternity.”-Maximus

“Destiny may ride with us today, but there is no reason for it to interfere with lunch”-Peter the Great (not me)

“The world suffers a lot. Not because of the violence of the bad people, but rather the silence of the good people.”-Napoleon

“Superficial goals lead to superficial results.” – Attila the Hun

“Without knowledge, skill cannot be focused. Without skill, strength cannot be brought to bear and without strength, knowledge may not be applied.” – Alexander the Great

“Not everything that counts can be counted and not everything that is counted counts.”- Einstein

‘Iron Maiden has our field and that’s what we plow. We can only plow one field at a time; we don’t care what anyone else is doing with their field.’-Bruce Dickinson

“Too much of anything is bad, but too much good whiskey is barely enough” – Mark Twain

“The poison was never forced — it was offered gently, until you forgot it was poison at all.” – also Mark Twain

“I used to be with ‘it’, but then they changed what ‘it’ was. Now what I’m with isn’t ‘it’ anymore and what’s ‘it’ seems weird and scary. It’ll happen to you!” – Grandpa Simpson

Peter 3:16 – I actually flipped John 3:16 being the contrarian I am and made a play on Austin 3:16. I get that God so loved the world that he have his only son and that Steve Austin said “I just whipped your ass!” but Peter 3:16 states “I so love my son (and daughters) that I am trying to give him the world and all those who support him shall be given gratitude.”

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